You can be as daring as you like, it is up to you. I believe in not taking life too seriously, chemistry and connection, lets enjoy a drink, a good conversation and whatever follows naturally without rushing. She gave me a button New Milford, CT she called a "rescue me" button. Very clean guy but dirty mind don't like condoms need skin on skin willing to play safe first time.
I have experience with mfm, mff, mfmf, and larger groups.